Cameron Slade Morhaliek

Mike W Laing

I'm sorry, but this guy has some very serious issues comprehending and understanding the meaning of what I am saying. Strangely, he likes, and continues to, make assumptions and start giving advice on the assumptions he forms, which have been exactly the opposite of what I was starting to get at. An example of his behavior is that he said he had a childhood trauma and he 'decided' that he would not let it affect him, as i it never happened. He kept repeating that people handle situations like this. I asked him how many, and he said he didn't know. Then he repeated it again that when people grow up, they learn not to let old traumas be of any consequence, as adults. He began to get even more irrational when I asked him to show me the research because he was acting like he was blatantly insisting that all 'grown-ups do this. Now, the thing was that, he was going on and on, and becoming insulting and acting very annoyed - I imagine because I wasn't going to let some quack start teaching me dangerous and irrelevant ideas. But, what was the very worst of all his INADEQUATE AND UNQUALIFIED SPURIOUS EFFORT HE HAD JUST SPENT GRADUALLY STARTING TO ACT AS IF I WAS A CHILDISH VICTIM - - - - WAS THAT i DIDN'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH GETTING ON WITH LIFE AND EVER DWELLING ON MY PAST. HE HADN'T, AND DIDN'T EVEN HAVE THE SKILL TO UNDERSTAND THAT I WAS TALKING ABOUT A REVELATION (WHILE WORKING IN THE GARDEN) AND IT BECAME CLEAR TO ME THAT I HAD BEEN STUFFING ANGER ABOUT CHILDHOOD ABUSE AND IF i EVER THOUGHT ABOUT IT, I HAD BEEN MAKING EXCUSES AND FOR WHAT MY MOM DID, AND I HAD SUDDENLY REALIZED THAT -> I WAS SO BLOODY ANGRY, DEEP INSIDE AND THAT TO RESOLVE IT ALL I HAD TO DO WAS GET HER TO UNDERSTAND THAT SHE HAD BEEN SELFISH AND ABUSIVE AND IT HAD SCARED AND DAMAGED ME. THE GOOD Dr hadn't let me finish explaining that that is why I had had the the childhood event on my mind, it was a momentary issue to take care off, AND THAT'S ALL. But he spent half the session explaining about how grown ups let stuff go without realizing that that's what I had done already. Then he said that mature come to grips with their trauma, and childish people don't. He was calling me childish! HE WAS USING AN INCORRECT IDEA, ONE THAT I FOUND OUT IS PURE BULLSHIT - AND HE USED THIS FABRICATED CLAIM JUST TO GO OUT OF HIS WAY TO CALL ME IMMATURE! then, IT WAS OBVIOUS THAT I KEPT CALLING HIM ON HIS STRAWMAN ARGUMENTS, AND UNCORROBORATED, VERY DIFFICULT TO BELIEVE AND TAKE SERIOUSLY CLAIM OF THIS MAGICAL WORLD WHERE EVERYONE IS HEALTHY AND UNDAMAGED BECAUSE THEY HAVE OVERCOME THEIR TRAUMA, ON THEIR OWN, HAVING CHOSEN TO DO THAT BECAUSE THEY ARE MATURE ADULTS;. Just as I was halfway out the door, he says with great disdain, that I should try putting myself in my mothers shoes for a change, that maybe I should start to try to see other peoples points of view. Fuck, what a serious jerk, and childish creep using that situation to get the last insult - a grievous insult that I was a selfish prick that only thinks o himself. The dolt had no idea that I drive myself to tears because my mom is sick and she can't do what she used to love doing, anymore. IT IS THE ONE THING I ALWAYS GET COMPLIMENTED ON, BY FRIENDS, AND BY THERAPISTS AND Dr's IS THAT i HAVE SUCH AN UNCANNY AMOUNT OF INSIGHT AND ALL THAT. To finish, I would stay far away from this one. He acts like he already knows everything ahead of time, and then uses that assumption to render therapy. HE IS INCOMPETENT AND DANGEROUS.

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